In less than 6 months my grandfather and one aunt died. There is of course, shock and sadness… and acceptance is emerging as the main emotion. Not really denial or anger since my grandfather was old and suffer for quite a bit of time, and my aunt had a terrible sick-stricken life, they both were fully loved and achieved so much, within their lifetime. It was time for their soul to get back to the Creator. So what happens when is time to meet God? The more elevated ones have been telling me that they go right to the light. The spiritual ones tell me that we ought to pray and light white candles so the soul finds the light tunnel to go to God asap (they say that only saints really see the tunnel that goes to God)… some others just cry and tell me they are sorry for my loss. Some Chinese friends recommend not to be nearby the cemetery, funeral house or the morgue since the souls of the ones that do not have anyone to pray for them, or are attached to this world can follow you, if you have to, then you have to jump through fire, clean your house with incense and/or go to a shopping mall for a while before coming back home and do not buy anything… so you shoo the spirits/lost souls away from your life. Others recommend using lots of perfume since the souls and spirits do not really like the smell.
I think God, the Source of everything that there is, wants us to live a fulfilled life. God wants me to be happy, to learn all my lessons… In the meantime, I follow some of those advices since… “you will never know”… when I die, I can get back and tell my loved ones what to really do!
I send lots of love and light, directly from God, my endless source of love and light.